GOOD LUCK

“Living a hundred lives with one look or a lifetime with a hundred looks?”

Seeing this sentence on her husband’s profile, Derya said, “Okay, we say the same thing but we still can’t get along, why?”

-Look honey, I say, ‘I have one life and I live this life by getting experience transfers from a hundred lives. I am saying the same thing as you…

Melih paused for a moment and said, “Yes.”

-But the question is; who and why should I get this experience, in other words, the look, from and where and how should I place it in my life?

For example, I personally wouldn’t ask my sister Selin, who has been divorced three times, for her marital experiences. She hasn’t learned a lesson and is still trying to be with a man who is forcing her. In fact, she’s not even trying to have a better relationship, she is miserable. What a shame for her. She hasn’t been able to recognize herself or the other person. She still doesn’t know how to choose a life partner who will not upset her and will value her. If she continues with this mindset for a lifetime, woe to her…

Or how many people did you get ideas from when you were setting up this campsite, right? You even worked like a laborer at your friend's place one summer to learn what was going on at a camp. Why? To see how you could open a place that was both more profitable and more enjoyable, right?

-Yes, that summer was so hard, wasn't it... But I really learned a lot. When I first set up my tent, I could fix one side in half an hour, but now I can set it up and take it down again in that same time. Especially if there was a problem in the campsite, I would try to hide and escape from the problem so that I wouldn’t have to deal with it, but now I'm the one who tours the campsite to see if there's anything to do. Because I take care of the campsite, of course, both I and the campers are happy.

Yeah, yeah... It was very difficult, but now I can easily handle most things. Because I did my labor very well and learned the intricacies of the job well.

You know that's not what I mean when I say laborer, my dear... I mean, you started your apprenticeship at that job and now you've become the master of it. Nothing seems difficult to you anymore, you can easily handle everything. Because you've become the man of that role, you've become the master of it.

If a person figures out how to overcome the difficulties while forming reasons at the beginning of every job, the result is better. After all, the beginning of every good or useful thing is a little difficult, a little painful. This is the law of this world.

There is no food without effort, right?

Don't you remember me when we first got married, how many times I fed you porridge and rice. I didn't know how to cook rice or soup. But now, thank GOD, while you set up your tent in half an hour, I can make four different dishes, and the most delicious ones. I was also a kitchen laborer.

- Oh, dear, we are telling the same thing, but your words and concepts are different. Sometimes I can't figure it out, but then I say my wife wouldn't say anything bad about me. Besides, its’ not like I don't like that everything you say is consistent and useful.

- Of course, my love... Otherwise, why are we together, why are we a family? To meet in pleasure, benefit, beauty and truth, right?

Even if this is not our intention, let's refresh it if you want...

Let's always walk towards the truth in life. Let's support each other as we move forward, let's become similar. As our words, actions, pains, and pleasures begin to resemble each other, let's also enjoy being one.

-If GOD pleases. Honey, I need to take care of something now. Excuse me...

-My dear, you learned to solve most problems in your apprenticeship last year. I'd like to say good luck, but these are child's play for you anyway. Oh look, this is what my friend's profile says. Here's this for you:

-Send it my way, I’m ready.

-"People become one when they look in the same direction, not when they are side by side..."

-Okay, okay, I get it... This is probably the new version of saying 'Go to work', 'I have work to do, don't bother me'... You even managed to get me out of your way with a fancy sentence, kudos to you, my dear...

-Oh of course not dear... Let's see, GOD doesn't love someone who is idle. If He doesn't, I don't like him either. I hope your convenience increases day by day, my love…